My muslim boyfriend has asked me to marry him a number of times and then he said recently yesterday 'What did your mother say when I said I would take you to the Mosque as husband and wife' he then said he wants to marry me as soon as possible. Why does he want to get married soon like next year.
Most Helpful Guy
My girlfriend is Muslim (I'm an atheist) but I understand where the rush for marriage comes from. It's largely because in Islam dating and pre-marital sex is considered haram (forbidden)
We make it work though and I've spent some time studying Islam so it's been easier for me to understand and incorporate certain elements of it into my life (I don't eat pork for instance)1
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Because he's very eager to have sex with you and of course, you can't have premarital sex as that is a sin. The question is are you prepared to covert if your not a Muslim? Have you two seriously talked about this situation? Are you prepared to submit to him as your husband by being his wife? If your not ready for that, tell him now. But if you can't have that with him because you don't want that, or feel your making a mistake. Then don't marry him. But its mainly to have sex. Its not wrong, especially if this is what you two want. But you have to make a proper decision.0