What is the secret for a happy marriage?

What is the secret for a happy marriage?

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22d Learn to be Be an exelent forgiver...

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  • Learn to be Be an exelent forgiver...

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What Girls Said 10

  • Learn to pick your battles. Not every tiny thing that annoys you needs to be brought up and argued over.
    Argue with respect, no matter how angry you get don't start low shots or name calling and once the argument is over it's over, don't keep bringing it up.
    Remember to take the time to spend with each other and have fun, do things you did when you first got together and try new things

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  • may be communication and loyalty

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  • No extramarital sex

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  • respect

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  • ALWAYS be willing to work at it. All relationships take work, even if you are with your best friend. Never let your marriage get into the "content stage" where life is literally passing you by. Fight and argue, make up, have sex, a lot and treat one another with respect, especially when you don't want to.

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  • Trust, communication and FUN, people should have fun in their marriage not let it become mundane.

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  • Marry your best friend

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  • There is no secret you will fight with your wife/husband but you need to learn how to work everything out , listen to each other and tell each other how you feel and you'll make it and when you have kids always make time for date nights !

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  • Good communication and understanding ^^

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What Guys Said 4

  • It comes down to being with the right person. I do not believe anyone can just marry anyone. The better the relationship is, the easier it works just by itself. A solid marriage should work automatically if you picked the right person. If you find yourself in a marriage that constantly breaks down or constantly needs counseling, help and guidance, then I fear you are with the wrong person. A few things I recommend is simple, honest and open communication. You need to able to talk to each other. This means two way too! You need to take it and give it too. If there is something happening you don't like, you need to voice that. AND, if someone tells you something you don't like, you need to be able to accept it with an open mind. This leads to the next secret is being able to compromise!!! There will always be areas in a relationship where two people will never agree on. But how well they work around this, how flexible they are and how well they compromise will dictate how strong they end up being. Knowing this person leading up to the marriage is also one of the secrets. You need to date for about 2 years, then live together for at least 2 years to fully know this person in order to lead into a success and happy marriage.

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  • many many things

    most come bad father mother figures. a lot of failure start from the generational wrongs or misfortunes

    but you can change it through a hurting truth... most just avoid it

    morals is the single biggest indicator then compatibility... relgious, habitual, personalities etc

    non talks about this but it is the most powerful indicator... not looking similarily attractive and lust as most are motivated by.

    morals is huge and check their past... power and validation as a youth really ruins a person

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  • a prenuptial agreement :D

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  • No sex before marriage, hate hook up n break up cultures

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