Growing up, did you imagine or dream of your wedding?

I never did and even now don't, but I've heard people say they did.

  • Yes
    45% (32)26% (9)39% (41)Vote
  • No
    55% (39)74% (26)61% (65)Vote
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What Guys Said 13

  • i mean i thought once or twice would i want to get married on a beach or something but didn't really imagine or dream about it

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  • Nope I'll let my wife deal with most of that, the only thing I've ever wanted is to walk down the isle to this song, though I think most star wars fans have probably thought about it once or twice.

    https://youtu.be/BjDaPOWdx6s

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  • Guys dont sit around and think about their wedding about all the details about how it would be like women do that

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  • I've dreamed about marriage, and just having a partner, but a big, fancy wedding was never something I was hung up on.

    Afterall, your wedding day is just one day out of the rest of your life with that person (if you did it right, that is).

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  • girls are totally weird. and yes i think they all do. its like genetic or something.

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    • 17d

      If you look at the poll, you'll see 61% of girls didn't dream about their wedding.

      I certainly didn't so it's not ALL girls. I dreamed about my future husband, not the wedding.

      I understand why you think that but that's an unproved stereotype made by TV. It's certainly not genetic. Please don't make unprecedented assumptions.

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    • 15d

      @NexAngelus wasn't really that funny.

      Please don't stereotype girls for being people to fantasize about their weddings or any other stereotype

    • 15d

      @MaisGem21 its not a sterotype when everyone i have know has been that way now is it? its called statistics. and when i said lols, that implies others do it for fun. why do i care? i have one voice that is right here. and i dont care what girls fantasize about unless its my girlfriend... then i have to care.

  • No I didn't

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  • Not really.

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  • No, I always found the thought of me getting married as repulsive.

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  • I still imagine it now

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  • No just of the wedding night.

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  • I did.

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  • No. I used to dream about fucking a girl and sex.

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  • bitches do that, guys dont

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What Girls Said 29

  • I never did. I was planning a cattle ranch in Texas when everyone else was planning their wedding.

    Except now I have a wedding to plan and I'm just like... I got nothing, dude. He keeps talking about me having the wedding I always dreamed of and I'm sitting there like, "I never dreamed of a wedding!"

    I never planned on getting married. Until like 3 years into dating my now fiance. Then I was like, "Oh, I might actually be with this person for forever."

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  • I've always wanted that really big princessy dress.
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  • Not really, not as a child. My parents talked about marriage and boyfriends so much that I was determined to never get married or have a boyfriend and never imagined it. From about 16, I started imagining it more though.

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  • No, I never wanted to get married. My sister did and she had the most incredible wedding a couple of years ago.
    I thought about having a baby of my own all the time, it was pretty much all I thought about growing up, and then when I met my son's dad we started trying straight away. I had and have other ambitions, but being a mother is all I've ever wanted, but marriage isn't for me.

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  • Yes, many times.

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  • I used to dream about my wedding growing up, I still did recently. Not anymore, I don't have any desire for anything right now, because I'm hoping to die soon. Like I said in a previous and in my profile, I DON'T have suicidal tendencies, but I hate the fact I'm alive.

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  • No. I never imagined that. I imagined my dream job, house etc. But not wedding haha. I guess that's why I don't have a boyfriend. I am not a romantic girl. I am a pragmatic person.

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  • I never did that. I still don't do it. I can't see myself getting married.
    But I heard that some girls are always dreaming about their wedding.

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  • Not really. Sometimes I'll see something that I like at a wedding and I'll think that it would be nice... but I don't actively dream about it.

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  • A little, yes. As I got older, I thought of it more and in greater detail.

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  • I don't care about my wedding at all and would probably prefer not to have a wedding celebration to mark my marriage since I have been busy with school these last couple of years and have had very few friends. I would not want to have a wedding where I bring 6 guests and my husband brings 300 so I would not even want a wedding.

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  • No I never have imagined or dreamt my dream wedding, all I want is a wedding that suits me and the person that I end up marrying.

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  • I know nobody will ever marry me so no, I don't. What's the point.

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  • I never pictured my wedding as I was growing up, but these days I imagine my wedding day all the time. I'm just waiting for that special moment.

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  • not really, only occasionally when my parents/grandparents mentioned it but idrc ultimately. if i do get married only want a small affair, cba with a long stressful and super expensive wedding. the only thing that really matters is the honeymoon

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  • I still do...

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  • Even though I am very feminine I am also thinking a lot more like hetero males in such matters. Get along better as one of the guys than one of the girls in group socializing. I'd much rather help someone else plan or make their wedding special though, love dolling up after "tomboying" it up, so not like a guy...

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  • nope, not really

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  • Yes, I always imagine of it

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  • Nope, I didn't

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  • Yes, i've always dream about my wedding as a teen and how I wanted it to be.

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  • NOPE. Never was huge on the wedding thing.

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  • No not at all I always thought of weddings as stressful and expensive.

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  • No and I find it very weird when young girls talk about it. Like wtf, you have your whole life ahead of you damn.

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  • Growing up-no. Now I do.. I can't wait to plan it!

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  • As I teen I did. I want a Halloween wedding

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  • No, not that I can recall of.

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  • No I didn't.

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