OK so I have been talking to this guy online for about a year, and he tells me things like he loves me, and has never been so into a girl before.
It's "online" so I just have a hard time believe all this, being that he could be doing whatever, whenever .. because duh, we live worlds apart!
He says he wants to marry me.. which is really serious, I told him I would never marry someone, I didn't know in real life, and live with them for at least a year or somethng, to know its for real.
He agreed with me, and so I'm planning a trip just to visit, and we'll go from there.. He says we can live together for awhile, before deciding to get married. (he's just never felt this way before)
Thing is, I have a friend who went online, sort of to trick him to see if he's real with me. He's totally falling for her, hitting on her and saying he's single and just looking for a serious girlfriend to marry.
Is this only about marriage? Is this all crazy, because he seems normal when I talk to him, clearly I'm being duped. So, now I feel lied too, obviously,
would you tell him it's your friend talking to him? Or just stop talking to him all together? Or would this not even bother you?
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He sounds like he's just really lonely. Your friend did of course, use her account and not yours when she spoke to him am I right?.
Telling us that you've known him for a year doesn't really mean anything, I say just keep things friendly for now.
Are you really into this guy?.1