Her and her boyfriend have been together for 6 years, but she is only 20, and I'm 19 so of course I'm upset, I'm just not in the mood to hear about her marriage, or wedding plans or anything when I am struggling to get a boyfriend! I know I should be happy for her or whatever, but I don't CARE! and I know hearing about it is going to p*ss me off, I just feel like its official everyone around me is either getting engaged or having kids and I'm not doing either and its p*ssing me off... so I don't know what to do?
My big (sorority sister) just got engaged and I can't be happy for her because I want to cry....
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Um if my big got engaged I'd be thrilled. I hope one of my sisters is getting engaged soon, or hopefully will wind up with the guy she's with because we all love him, and even though I don't have a boyfriend and never hook up I can find it in me to be happy for them. If it really bothers you talk to your big about it but also think about her. If something huge was happening in my life and my little was just like, "Big I don't want to hear about it," I'd be hurt. I mean are you really that upset that she's getting married and you're not? You're 19, why do you want to be married? Why does she want to be married? No one in my chapter is engaged yet and in all of greek life at my school only 2 girls are engaged (that I know of) and they both just graduated and both of the guys are going into the army and they all seem to get married pretty early. Stop complaining and be happy for your big instead of being jealous. They've been together for a long time, be happy for them. It's better to be happy for other people than sit around feeling sorry for yourself.0
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