Why I'm easily irritable and snappy with my fiance. I find he annoys me lots like " I want something, and he'll joke like by not giving it to me". I realize it's his way of loving me. However I don't like it done lots of the time. Could the reason why some people are snappy/irritable with others be because they have some unresolved they want solved with somebody? I find I want things done right away like chores. He takes his take and it gets me a little bit upset.
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You're snappy because the stress of the marriage is hard to deal with, especially the planning part. It's in our nature, as males, to annoy out female counterpart. We have many nuisances that we cannot control. I know you want things done correctly and quickly. Some people work at their own pace. The key is to communicate, and don't sweat small stuff. You can make the best out of what you have, or you can become grumpy, which will drive him away from you.0