About 4 - 5 days a week, I workout for 60-90 minutes. There is a woman (married and stays at home with 3 children) who is always there at the same time. Several weeks ago she started smiling at me. Then on occasion she would come up and briefly engage in small chat with me. I am married as well and I try to resist the temptation to look because to tell you the truth it is very difficult to stare away. When I look at her she looks away and when she looks at me I look away. When we engage in conversation, she talks about her husband and I talk about my wife and children. Very confusing read to me.
Attraction there or just imagining things?
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It sounds as though she finds you attractive. Personally if I found someone attractive and started talking to them I would bring up my fiance as a way to keep my boundaries up. It may be her way of letting you know she doesn't want any kind of fling. But her looking at you may be an indication that she finds you physically appealing. There's nothing wrong with looking and talking platonically. Anything beyond that is not good in my opinion.1
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