next month I turn 18, my girlfriend is turning 23 in September. tomorrow we are getting married, why, I got her pregnant and we are keeping it. until now I hadn't thought bout it that much. obviously I'm totally unprepared to be married, let alone have a child. I know its my fault this happened. how do I get myself ready for such huge responsibilities, we are in love but, I'm scared as hell
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It takes two to tango. No matter what you need to do what is right for you, her and the baby. If this mean s your not ready to be married don't do it, you can wait a couple years when you have matured. How ridiculous that she is 22 and your not even 18 and are getting married all because she is pregnant. If anything marriages that have not been rushed and well thought of are disasters in the making. This is not the 1960's you can be a good father and she can be a good mother without getting married. Are you even finished with school? That is extremaly important to do you do notwant to be stuck in a dad end job. I hope you make the right decision for yourself and family.
p.s don't blame yourself,if anything she's older by 5yrs and had no reason being with a 17 year old.0
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