My boyfriend thinks we should wait 20 years to get married to make sure it lasts. At first I thought it was a joke so I said OK but I have been dating him for over two years and we have been living together just over a year. I just don't think I should have to pay for his ex-wives. Yes he has been married twice before. I have been married once. I don't mind waiting but for 20 years? Come on, that's too long. Should I tell him I want to get married or just wait it out?
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I agree with Allmixedup,.....
Also, if you waited 20 years, what would be the difference of actually being married. He seems to have serious commitment issues.
Be straight with him, let him know how you feel (if he has issues and you want to work through them with him, up to you),... and if he can't commit to making you a part of his life, then I would consider moving on.0