My spouse was unfaithful a few years back and he recently told me because he was tired of caring the burden of this secret and felt I had a right to know. After six months, I started divorce paperwork, not getting past my feelings on the matter. My spouse convinced me to do couples counseling as a last effort. I agreed. I have since discovered intense feelings for another man who I want to be intimate with. I am not wearing my wedding ring and he knows there is a real chance of divorce. He says he can not live with out me. What do I do? The situation I doubt will happen again but a feel a real loss I just can't get past. We have been married over 2 decades.
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There are bottom lines for any relationship. This could be yours. and you could be attracted to that other man because you are already thinking of yourself as being single. Some people can forgive infedelity but it seems like you may not be one of them. Yes he made a mistake, but it was a mistake that is shaking the very foundation of your family.2