I've heard never give someone (bf/gf) more then a year together if your not sure if you want to be with them forever because you should know within 6-9 if you want to marry them or not. Do you think this is true?
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lol, no. You still learn a lot about your partner, even well after being together for 6-9 months. Plus, being "together" for 6-9 months doesn't say much about how much time you've actually spent with each other (you could be long distance, you might only see each other a couple nights a week, you might live together) and how close you are/how much you know about each other.
Tons of people are together for that long, or even longer, and think that they would like to marry each other, but in the end, realize that they're not right for each other and break up.2