every woman I know who doesn't know how to do ANYTHING has a man (is married...and many with families). it seems like all the chicks I know who refuse to work and only stay home, can't cook (just mac and cheese or microwavable things or top raman), aren't too smart, don't plan on going to school, don't have a life plan or plan on working a day in their life have always had guys at their beck and call, and are now all married. but yet for some reason, I can cook so well I have been thinking of going to school to become a chef, am a licensed esthetician, take care of myself, am super nerdy smart, and I have never even been proposed to. my mother was that kind of woman, she can't do anything without a man's help. and well, she has never had a problem finding a man. my poor dad waited on her hand and foot until he died now she has NO idea how to live life without a man.
most of my friends who are in school, or have degrees, or who are just wonderful women...are single. most not by choice, and the weird thing is; whenever I meet a guy they act like what I'm doing in life isn't enough and call me lazy...so I don't understand really.
do men prefer women who are "useless" (sorry that's kind of harsh...) is it an ego thing? like, men like to take care of a woman who can't even take care of herself...? please give me your opinions! thanks! =)
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I can see what you mean by men liking to take care of a girl, that is true, but more in a protective way rather then a dominance.
Personally I love a girl who is smart, independent, ambitious, real turn on.
The "less ambitious?" girls get guys who like to dominate slightly, or feel they have an upper hand in the relationship (NOT ALWAYS TRUE).
I prefer having a lady who completely stands for 50/50 rights for everything and knows what she wants, but is not to over powering.1