Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years and living together for 1, we have a good relationship and can talk to each other about anything but as soon as I mention a future together he avoids the subject or asks me why the rush. Will he ever propose to me or is he to scared to?
We love each other so much but I really don't want to have to wait forever for him to decide.
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how old are you guys?
if he is saying, why the rush he might feel like he is too young to get married.
if he avoids the topic, he might not be thinking marriage.
I mean he has something good going already, you living with him is probably all he wants at this time.
If you raelly want a date set up, why don't you ask him what age he feels he will marry you. If he doesn't say and says he doesn't know, then you might want to reconsider your relationship. If he says maybe around this or that age, then you should wait for that time. good luck1