I did that once. My ex was cheating on me and I was suspicious... then one day I was using his computer and went to check my facebook and his password was saved. I logged onto his account to see if my suspicions were justified. He had a lot of messages from this one girl, so I read one to see who she was. I found he had been dating her for a couple months. Then I saw that they had a couple dates planned... so then later when he lied to me said he was going to the gym, I told him I wanted to join him. I ended up ruining a few of their dates by joining :P.
I am not proud of going through his stuff, but I understand how hard it is not to look when you suspect someone of lying to you. So I think the only way you will stop looking is if the passwords get changed, so you should probably tell him. He won't be happy, but the sooner you come clean, the sooner you can stop looking through his mail and start engaging in more healthy behavior which will help you move on.
If he's on fb, you can log onto his account (if he uses the same email and password) and basically frape him, and then say something like, 'hahaha I fraped you :D'. Once he sees you can go onto his account, he might change his password to avoid that sort of thing in the future lol. Also only do it if you are still quite friendly with him! If you're not then I say just try and forget them, there's not much else you can do :-/
He might think it's too much work for him to change his passwords for everything OR he doesn't think you'd go through his stuff. (which yes, you shouldn't be doing)
How about you stop looking through his stuff? This says volumes more about you than it does about him. It's fascinating, for example, that you think something is wrong with *him* for not changing his passwords, as opposed to *you* for reading his e-mail.
It's immature, disrespectful, illegal and frankly it's a bit pathetic. So get a bloody grip on yourself.
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Thats an invasion of privacy, you should tell him, imagine how you would feel in a similar situation
Maybe he hasn't changed it because one day you'll find something you won't want to see and you'll never do something as to go through someone's personal stuff again.
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