What do you think?. I personally think so. I won't say why to spoil the question though, but what do you think?.
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i think the problem is that people get married too fast and don't fully get to know the person enough, or they just have lust for each other but in reality personality wise theyre not as compatible as they think, I believe in long engagements and the couple should frequently visit each others parents houses get the families together and get to know each other thoroughly and discuss common goals, kids, sex, finance while being engaged...and I think after 2-3 years if you still love each other so much thennn you should tie the knot.
i know a lot of girls that fall for the guy and feel lust for him and vice versa and they have some good talks here and there and have nice times together and after 6 months dating they decide to tie the knot which is ridiculous because you have so much more to learn about each other and grow together a bit more...and now a lot of these chicks I heard about are getting divorced...sucks but at the same time I always say you shouldn't have rushed.
also I think people should use protection and birth control and ask themselves if they are really ready to be parents? just because marriage is a green light for sex doesn't mean you should be okay with having kids right away...you still have to settle in learn more about each other as a couple before deciding to be parents since kids are a huge responsibility.0