I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years 3 weeks ago and keep having mixed feelings, how long does it take to realize if you made the right or wrong decision? And would he ever forgive me for dumping him if I say I'm sorry and ask him back? I need space to see what it is I want out of life, he had told me for years he wanted marriage then out of blue he said he wanted kids but not marriage, I want marriage one day so decided to break up, should I settle for less? Or should he just be left alone and if he doesn't change his mind on marriage let him be instead of looking for something off him he doesn't want? Honestly I thought the thought of losing me would change his opinion on marriage
Should I settle for less?
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For me it's essential to be tied to someone through marriage before raising a family..This signifies to bond of commitment on both parties..You made a good decision in doing this..if he gets you pregnant and leaves you with kids it would be unfair on your part..Give it time the ball now is in his court..let him realize your worth..any guy who wouldn't want to be married and have kids are actually a big pain..0
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