Guys, how long would you wait to propose?

How many days/weeks/months/years would you have to date your girlfriend before you'd consider becoming engaged?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • 2-3 years at least. I don't think I would ask her before year passed. And it would have to have outer reasons (like no money for wedding or something worse) to make me propose later than after 7 years. I would leave her if I was not sure after that time.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Years. I don't know how many, but I know that I'd wait for a couple of years before even thinking about it. To introduce you to me, I'm an indecisive shopper at times. I will stand in the grocery store aisle when I'm buying something new that I've never bought before, and I will compare and brainstorm and whatever else until I'm either sure I should buy it or if I should give it a second thought...for the 20th time.

    The same would probably be true for such a big decision and commitment like marriage. Do I really like and love her? Is she right for me? Am I right for her? Can I stand her? Am I truly comfortable with her? Does marriage even need to happen right now? Have I done the things I want to do without having the marriage commitment on me?

    Things like that would run through my mind. I would comfortably be in a long relationship with a girl before those thoughts happen, though.

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  • Depends but certainly more than a year of dating

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  • At least over two years

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  • I'd wait like a total of 5yrs

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What Girls Said 1

  • at least a year I would think

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