Guys do you feel the need to be the provider?

would it bother you if a woman was paying the bills and helping you as well? If you are not he provider then what role are you playing and what are you bringing to the relationship?


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  • it only fair in a relationship to meet things half way such as with paying for bills and other stuff, but if I am in a marriage I would definitely be the one to be the provider..and let the wifey manage the budget..she can add a little help but id rather shoulder most

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What Guys Said 4

  • I'd worry. I would want the bills to be paid in half. It's only fair.

    But when it comes time to making a baby, I'd like to step it up a notch.

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  • no it doesn't bother me. but I would worry how she views me in the relationship. at that point I'm just there for emotional support, and I'd wonder if that was enough for her.

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  • if she is helping no, but if if she is the only source of money then I would feel like a failure.

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  • I think 50-50 is best in a relationship. I've done the provider bit and hated it.

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