My boyfriend of 6 years is gonna propose to me (so says his sister) how can I tell him that I'm not ready to make that kind of jump?
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Well if you have been with him for six years chances are you know whether or not you see yourself spending the rest of your life with him. If you want to marry him in the future, I suggest you accept his proposal and be clear that you want a long engagement/need to be done doing something (school etc.) before you get married. If you don't see yourself with him forever, then maybe it is time to move on. It will just end up hurting him to be with someone he wants to marry if you doesn't feel the same way about him.4