Do you think it is an advantage or disadvantage to be with someone you knew as kids?
I think it is a disadvantage because I am with one now and I wish I didn't know his past and the things he has done.
If I knew someone only from when they were like 25+ and not when they were kids then it would be easier to be like, my past is my past and we should just base our future on our future.
For some reason I can't get rid of his past out of my mind. I feel like because who he was in his past, even though he says he'll change for me (so he was still the person in his past when he met me) I can't forget who he was when I met him and who he was when he was in his past. Like you know? I had him changed to believe that certain things he did in his past with drugs and sexual immorality were wrong. I just don't feel I can love him much. This goes through my mind so much and I have no one to tell this to. So I am on here a lot.
I'm so confused... but it's not as bad as it seems.
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The advantage is, you know what you got. The important question, though, is do you want what you got?0