It's hard for me to fully accept the idea of settling down with one person. Does anyone feel the same?
You may say I haven't find the "one", but other than that what's the reason of feeling this way? I want to be in love but am not that into marriage. What should I do?
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i think there is defrence between "cold feet" and being scared of marriage as a concept...i mean in cold feet you have the acceptance of marriage but you wonder if he or she is the "one" for you, in the 2nd case...you presume that marriage is a cage that will prevent you from doing stuff you like...sometimes true, some times wrong...it depends on how ready YOU are to settle down.
ps, in my opinion, settling down doesn't mean you will not be able to do stuff you will enjoy, the trick is to find someone who REALLY loves you back and exchange experiance that both of you will enjoy with making a balance for each of you to have his\her OWN time...and that is a very tricky one!1