Firstly what is the best way to stop during a make out that is still sexy and not lame, like if you are on a date?
also when should you say you are a virgin, how do you tell a guy that you want to lose it to him without freaking him out about how serious the relationship will be?
I'm not saving myself for marriage, I'm 19 and just waiting for the right guy but think I am ready.
If you have dated a virgin how did they tell you and how did you react?
i like indie guys, any idea what they would think about me being a virgin?
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Don't worry about freaking him out. If he freaks out, he should be freaked out and you shouldn't be sleeping with him. If he doesn't freak out, that's a good sign.
In terms of the making out, don't rub his dick unless you're willing to give him a hj as a minimum. You can press your bodies together and kiss or whatever, though if you get into serious grinding you're going to frustrate yourselves. If you're willing to get him off, do whatever you want and just say no to anything you're not up for.
Guys who want to date you will be glad to be your first. Guys who want to pump and dump will be worried.6