Okay so there is this guy I really like him but I can't seem to talk to him at all its like when I'm around him I'm a total Idiot I can't say what I want to I really need Help.
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aww, so cute it happens to the best of us! My challenge to you, is to get in tune with your body language, and pay attention to his. There is sub-conscious and conscious. My guess is, you have been putting out a mother-load of signals, without having ever realized it before. Well, guess what girlfriend, it's time to start releasing it. 90% of what we say is non-verbal, and only 10% is verbal. If you can tap into that, then communicating verbally will be a piece of cake. Find out his interests, friends? guys love their friends, so talk to them. ask him for some non- threatening help or advice. Guys have egos, and like it when women stroke it. This is not to demean anyone ever, but you have to get some engagement started for the ball to get moving. Always break the ice, but never make the first move. Remember you want him to be interested in you, on his own individual merits genuinely, not out of pressure from you, or anyone else. Good luck lady! Trust me, he is a grown ass man, and If he wants you, he'll come and get you!