Can a guy get butterflies?

My girlfriend gets butterflies around me all the time and I don't know what she is talking about. Are guys even supposed to get them

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the thing is I love her so much and I'm asking her to marry me in a couple weeks and I needed to know

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Yup, if you're deeply in love.

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What Girls Said 4

  • I love that feeling.

    Hopefully you get the butterflies one day because its pretty great.

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  • I bet they can - they call them something more manly though XD like tigers! :D

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  • lol obviously they do get them if they really like someone.

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  • yeh, everyone gets them, now and then.

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What Guys Said 14

  • Yeah, first time I got them I thought I was going to vomit... then again I also got shakes. To me the butterflies are most closely resembling that of intense anxiety, but it's different. It's something you just know when it happens to you. I don't think that means you can't be deeply in love with someone just because you never experienced the butterflies. Hope the proposal and such go well for the both of ya.

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  • Ya I have before but I think it would be more common with women since they are more emotional (or tend to be)

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  • Guys definitely get butterflies...its kinda hard to describe but yeah I mean as a guy I don't get all gushy about them but I see why girls do

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  • Why do people ask such stupid questions like this one?

    It's a emotions and feelings that every human being gets.

    Stop being stupid.

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  • Yes. But I haven't gotten butterflies in like 5 years.

    I don't know if you just grow out of them or you gradually become less impressed. lol

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  • Yeah. I get them.

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  • Yes guys get them.

    It feels kind of like you're lightheaded, dazed and euphoric all at the same time, and may be accompanied by shortness of breath.

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  • Yeah guys get them too... If you aren't feeling the butterflies too, or didn't at least at first, I'd be concerned.

    To me that suggests a lack of chemistry there, but I mean, maybe I'm wrong. Everybody's different I suppose...

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  • Once. And no, we're not together anymore...

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  • yea you can. do you never feel pressure?

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  • I've gotten them once or twice.

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  • I used to get them but its been awhile

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  • oh trust me , YES

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  • If you're gonna marry her note this:

    "NO BACHELORETTE PARTIES"

    Girls are far more likely to have sex with the stripper on the night before the wedding then a guy. So just don't have them.

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