OK so I've been with my now fiance for close to 4 years, we've been engaged for 8 months. In the beginning everything was sunshine and rainbows and perfect but the more I fell for him, the worse he seemed to treat me. Making me pay for everything, making me sleep on the floor in his room because there apparently wasn't enough room for me in his queen sized bed, and a bunch of other little things. Slowly I started to realize that he's really just a selfish jerk, who abuses me mentally and emotionally, but I'm so deeply invested into the relationship that it seems like a waste to just give up. I've tried to work on things but nothing changes. I never get to go out with any of my friends because he has no friends so we spend weekends together, and on the rare occasion a friend asks me to go out or hand out during the week, he always makes me feel so guilty about it to the point that I end up ditching my friends just to sit at home and sulk. I know I still love him, and I always will, but I seriously doubt that I'm in love with him anymore. I know I'm doing this all to myself but I really just have no idea what to do at this point. I just don't see the relationship being able to progress anymore, but I can't stand the idea of not having him in my life anymore. Seriously stuck on what to do at this point! help!
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