My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years now. We are both graduated from high school and are planning to attend college. He is going away to college but is staying in the same state and I am going to a local college until I transfer to a university, We both are majoring in Physiology so we plan to end up at the same college and graduate together. Anyways, since it will take a long time to receive our majors in Psyc and we both decided not to get married until after we graduate college, would it be such a bad idea to at least be engaged throughout college? Or some type of commitment. I told him that although I will, I do not want to just be "his girlfriend". I want some type of commitment that will show that he is serious about me. I feel like I might be pressuring him into marriage. I wouldn't mind being engaged for a while, I just want some type of commitment. I was thinking that he could give me a "promise ring" but I'm just not sure if I'm asking to much.. What do you think?
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Ask him how he feels about it, and the reasons behind it. If he really just wants to put off saving for the ring and making it special then just wait a bit longer. Some guys are romantic like that.
If he says he doesn't see it your way but will marry you some day, then at least that is commitment enough to say that. You know? Having a vision or a plan some day.
If he says he doesn't see it your way and not sure about marriage at all, then you might want to start worrying. That's what I'd say.0