OK so I am just too tired of my life... So my friend has been dating this guy for 7 months and she's saying that she thinks he's gonna lavalier her (pre-engagement) in a sorority. And it's so dumb I'm so tired of hearing about him, she said she loves him but I mean.. 7 months really?! And she lost her virginity to him so I assume that makes her attached too. But I'm just sick of it... If she gets engaged before me I will kill myself.. (not really, but I may as well). It's just annoying like she lost her virginity before me (I haven't even lost it yet) and now she might get engaged before me and she's been dating this loser for 7 mths!? Unreal! And no I can't be happy for her because I want to marry my boyfriend soon and have a baby
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at first I thought that you were mad because she was gonna marry the guy after only 7 months. so I was thinking man that girl must be an idiot. then as I read on, I realized that you were more mad because she was doing these things before you and its sort of like a competitive thing and then realized: your the idiot.
sorry to be so harsh but what is wrong with young girls these days? this is why the divorce rate is so high in our country. these are the petty thoughtless factors that some people base HUGE descisions on like marriage, instead of paying attention to what really matters. out of all the people I graduated with, ALL the girls were rushing as fast as they could to meet a guy, get a house, get married, and have some kids. it was like a track gun went off and they were all on a starting line. they were not going to be "out done" by their friends. and they all got together in their snobby groups and made fun of the girls who danced to the beat of their own drum. then they were in such a hurry that they forgot to realize that haven't even lived any of thier life yet and now they are 23 and followed each other into being trapped and never seen or done anything with their lives. fast forward over 10 years later...every single one of them (about 120 girls) except 2 that I know of are now divorced (cause they were in a hurry to pick out a guy based on their friends checklists), now have kids, struggling and miserable. they have not gone anywhere nor seen anything because they were in such a rush now it is hard to do anything because they have 3 kids and have to work all the time to support them. the girls they were making fun of took their time and got more education and traveled the world and have been everywhere and done everything and took their time to meet the PERFECT guy for them and didn't give a damn what everybody else was doing. and they are the ones that have the awesome lives and they are the ones that are laughing now. hope you don't end up like all those girls running "the race". but if you don't snap out of it stop worrying about what everybody else is doing, you probably both will. people can do all this young and early and it still work, but the kind of thinking you are doing based on your description...lets just say I wouldn't bet my money on your long term happiness.4