I'm a Christian girl who made a promise to stay pure until marriage. I started dating a guy for the first time and nothing has really happened- we've kissed once, but it wasn't anything hot and heavy. Anyway, I'm trying to figure out how to tell him about my promise. I think he basically knows since I'm wearing a purity ring, but I think it would be better if I talked it out with him. I already know what I WILL and WON'T do (ex. I will make out on a couch, but not laying down. He can touch me, but no where sexual. etc. etc.) So guys, or even girls in the same situation, how to I go about talking to him? I'm worried he's going to think that I see him as undesirable or unattractive when really, nothing could be farther from the truth! He's a Christian too, but we haven't really gotten into the whole sex-before-marriage talk so I don't know where he stands on that. Thanks for any advice! (:
How to talk about and create boundaries in a relationship?
Oh, and don't give me lectures or atheist arguments for wearing a purity ring. No matter what anyone says, it will not change the respect, faith, and love I have for God, so don't waste your time.
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