divorce ratings are raising cause of this recession time...it is difficult to get a job...then why to get complicated and get married...or it is just a fantasy...?
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Whether or not a marriage works often depends on how each partner views the purpose for marriage. I think the majority of divorce rates are from people that got married because they were in love. Though love is still probably the most important reason to get married, I also think it needs to be thought about logically as well. You can love a person to pieces, but they still might make a terrible marriage partner.
Marriage to me is just an agreement between two partners that they will be there to support each other until the end. I feel everyone needs unquestioned support at some times in their lives. I think your commitment to your partner should be much like the commitment to your child. Children can be tiring, demanding, and very difficult at times, but most people don't simply abandon their children when the going gets tough. Why people find it so easy to abandon their partner if they are going through rough times is beyond me.
I am engaged. After falling in love with my fiancee I, for the first time in my life, feel like I have something to lose. I feel like I have something worth working hard for, and something worth sacrificing for. These feelings have made me a better person. I no longer worry about the future, and no longer fear growing old. I am happy to grow old with him no matter where life's path takes us.
That's pretty sappy! When did I become such a sap! :P2