I am engaged but before I met my fiancé I had been fooling around with someone who had 2 kids and is also engaged. But then after a few months of my fiancé and I being together the other guy said he could not talk to me anymore because he didn't want to ruin his family, before this though he would tell me that if I was not with my fiancé he would leave his fiancé and be with me. (I was having sex with him the night his fiancé was in the hospital having their babyy!) I always have dreams about him. And I think about him alot. But I also love my fiancé he is my everything. What do I do?
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Obviously you should not get married. if your thinking about another man then its clear that your in completely in love with this man you claim to be your fiance. What kind of girl goes and has sex with another man while his fiance is in the hospital having his baby? That morally wrong.but I'm not here to judge you.
I think you should tell your fiance that youdream and think about another man. Your to young to get married. I got married at eighteen.and now here I am almost 24 and divorced.
SERIOUSLY THINK ABOUT GETTING MARRIED.what if you get married-and this guy you were sleeping with comes back and wants sex again. what you going to do? Cheat on your husband-if you answer yes to that question then do not get married
You need to do someone serious thinking and ask youself
IF this guy you think about all the time was to walk back into your life
and want to be with you? Would you be with him
If he wants to start sleepign with you again? Would you sleep with him?
WOuld you risk everything with your fiance to be with this man again?
If you answered yes to anyone of those questions
DO NOT GET MARRIED1