I have been in a relationship for the past 3 years and it seems like when people get married once its hard for them to try again...so just completely nix marriage and everything? Or now do we have to find someone who has never been married AND eventually wants it...? what does everyone think about marriage?
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Most decently intelligent men living in the western world know that marriage is a terrible deal for them. Marriage is outdated and no matter how hard the so-called Family Courts try to save it, it's going, going,.. and soon to be gone in developed nations. Humans run on INCENTIVE and there is NO incentive for a marry to marry, ever.
The only way I know of for a man in America to have his own kids is by surrogacy or adoption. Then, if and when a woman in his life leaves, the kids and the house are still his. She still gets a good deal, though, because at least she doesn't have to pay him for the next 18 years as a man does now.
By the way, it's not "child support". There is no requirement that she spends it on the children, nor is it based on child raising expenses. It's based on what he makes. Call it what it is... a female lifestyle support subsidy.
Why would any man in his right mind sign such a one-sided agreement (marriage) in which he was required to be financially obligated while she has no requirement whatsoever?
The agreement of marriage serves the state and women. Men get majorly shafted by it and people ask why men are reluctant to marry.0