I met a beautiful girl last Thursday at Starbucks.
Went on spontaneous date on Friday, and it went fantastic... she's really into me. Stays that way through the weekend, and on Sunday, she joins me at my cousin's house and she's really enjoying the pool party and BBQ.
We had a little bit of PDA, and she ate it up.I made it pretty obvious I'm into this girl, blatantly said I was interested, and she smiles in response.
We talked for an hour on the phone yesterday, and she loved it and asked me to call her later that night. I did, and we had a fun convo, but she light-heartedly mentions this:
"we're not exclusive... it's good to take things slow, no sense in
I react by saying "of course, you could be all sorts of crazy I don't know about yet!" and I change the subject. We talk and laugh for 10 more minutes (it wasn't an awkward moment), and I said I had to go and that I'd talk to her today.
When a girl subtly says we're not exclusive and she wants to take it slow (emotionally, not physically), how much should I back off?
My instinct is to back off a tad and take it easy... maybe re-engage in a day or two. Should I stop taking initative and completely?
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Your smart for the most part. Keep improving your life and date and have fun on the side. Meet other people, maybe those who are also looking for something more serious.
But If I was you I wouldn't sleep with her.I'd be an ass about those kind of things. You don't need her using you for sex and attention and then go off with some other dude and then back and forth. because she wants to taste every dish on the buffet before she picks one.
so do what your doing, take it slow and meet other people as well. If she's really into you it would drive her nuts and might even push her to keep you for herself lolz1