If your future hubby or wife asked you to sign a prenup would you do it?
Or what if they told you they didn't want to sign a prenup what would you do?
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The whole notion of "I would never sign because it would be like admitting the relationship would fail and I'd be so insulted" is really a croc of sh!t, in my opinion. How is getting married without one--and basically agreeing that one party is totally not protected against the other one (usually the "offended" one)--any better?
All the agreement says is that IF the relationship falls apart (for reasons that CLEARLY you can't foresee now) then each person leaves with what they came in with--usually with some agreement of how kids would impact things. I just find it a LITTLE convenient that the person who claimes offense, usually would have a LOT more to gain if the marriage ended without a prenup.2