Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for about a year and 9 months now and we have a 5 month old son. well we broke up on Sunday but got back together today (we just got in a fight over something stupid and realized how stupid it was). We were talking today and he says he always wants to be with me and I said the same thing and he said "aweee, does that mean you want to get married someday?" and at first I thought this was a good sign and I said yes (which is the truth) and he said "not me :/" so now I have no idea what to think!
I really want to be with him but I really do want to get married someday but he doesn't. :( so should I stay with him and just not get married, should I try and convince him to marry me someday in the future, or should I just leave him now?
- I should try in the future to convince him to marry me.Vote A
- Other (please specify)Vote B
- I should just leave him since we don't want the same thing.Vote C
- I should just stay with him whether we get married or not.Vote D
Most Helpful Guy
If it's that important to you then you should break up, but you're young and 9 months is way too soon for any guy to think about being married usually. Give it time if you really care about him. And if later you're sure you love him, then don't sweat it. Marriage doesn't mean much tbh.3
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