What if she is the most amazing girl you've ever met and you have told her this?
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I'd say something like 6 months to a year: less is risky, longer might be perceived to be getting a tad long.
-However, my brother and his wife got married when their oldest kid was 7 or 8 year or so.
-One of my exes married a guy who got her pregnant on purpose (within 2 or 3 months) and they're still together, as far as I know. Happy? I don't know but I hope so.
I don't really remember when we decided to marry: that decision grew gradually, after 6 or 8 months, when she suggested we buy engagement rings. We waited until we were both earning an income to marry, four years after starting to date.0