K, I know that sounds bad. What if he's really unhappy and thinking of getting out of his relationship, just hasn't done it yet or something?
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Ahhh…NO. Lunch dates and hanging out is fine with me, but unless he’s divorced it’s wrong. Even if I have known him for a while, that would make it worse. What if his wife found out? What if he worked things out with her? It’s not worth the risk of a marriage & friendship, unless the divorce was finalized.
I think if he’s in a unhappy relationship, than he should get out. It’s not fair to the “girlfriend” to string her along for the ride, nor is it fair to the wife. Seriously, the other girl should be called a “mistress” not a “girlfriend”, unless that’s what she is – no romantic relations. Get a divorce & stop playing games with both of these women’s life. It’s not fair to any of you.
Why are you so unhappy in your marriage anyways?0