I've been married to my husband for almost three years now and we got married for the benefits (in the military)and not really for love. But fate brought me a man who I'm very much in love with and he loves me in return and has pleaded me to leave my husband to be with him. However, I feel that I should stay true to my contract even though I'm not in love with my husband. Should I stay in a stable relationship or leave to be with the man I love not knowing what the future holds?
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If I can be blunt. You married a military man because of benefits. Sounds rather selfish if you ask me. You don't realize that the man you married is risking way more than your marriage, he is risking his life! For what pursuit? FREEDOM! I am a former US Marine, which I can speak on terms, and have first hand experience of what is going on here. Your marriage is a sham, because you didn't love him, and you were looking for a free ride. Word to the wise, GET OUT OF THE MARRIAGE BEFORE YOU DECIDE TO GO WITH THIS OTHER MAN! Please do not think I am picking on you. I am just trying to hopefully open your eyes to the possibility that if you decide to LEAVE HIM, he gets into combat and is distraught because of what's going on in his home life, his wife is fooling around with some other guy, god forbid he gets into combat and slips up. Next thing that will happen he comes home in a body bag. Now that I have ripped you a new one! What happens if you get with this Jody. How will he take care of you? Do you know that? Or does he tell you things you'd like to hear cause possibly your man is busy defending our nation. You need to 1, get some courage and STAY, or 2, LEAVE.0
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