I did propose. =) It wasn't very romantic and it was during a passing period at school, but hey, we're engaged now and when he's 18 we're tying the knot. So it obviously worked out fine.
I know right? that one got to me too. Although its one thing I fear. I would hate for the sex to stop after the knot is tied, that would just really suck.
heh, yea, but it was totally put into sexuality! I guess the mods moved it to relationships. Good ole mods. Also, I'm sure its very sexual at first, but I think for must people that stops after a couple of years. Oh well. Cest la vie.
I'd consider proposing, but I don't think I'd actually act on it. I want to be suprized by the guy and while some gender roles are outdated, I think it's still the guy's job to propose.
I would never propose! I think that if a guy feels like you're the one he wants, he should have the balls to say it. A proposal is the guys only time to give a glimpse of how much he loves his girl, and to what extent he can go to make her his.
no it doesn't sound very attractive to me.. I'm pretty traditional when it comes to that kinda stuff so I'd want my man to propose.. I'd never ha ha even tho I'd love him.. I'm just more of a traditionalist and want him to do that.
I would be afraid to get my feelings hurt if he said No. I couldn't do it. Plus I really would like to be the one receiving the engagement ring. My man should handle his Biz like a man. I'll be is buttress.
No I would not propose. It's about that fight for me thing! Unless of course I refused him the first time he asked, but then realized I had made a terrible mistake.
i have to add another comment. I think its funny how men want women to be upfront and assertive and make moves yet they don't want us to be forward and propose? isn't that making a move? pick a side guys pick a side
men are told to beg for women's love and attention way too much in our "enlightened" society. all it results in is men getting screwed over by frivolous women. f*** that, getting on a knee and proposing is the ultimate bitch move
Although I would like to say in that situation I would propose, but I wouldn't. Maybe just end up encouraging/talking about it if I felt in a grey area about it in the relationship :)
no its not sad. after 2 years I feel that if you don't know me well enough and vice versa then its not going to happen. I'm not going to waste my life on a guy who doesn't feel like I'm worth it. 2 years is long enough imo
kain6th I'm suprosed you commented because you blocked me lol.. whatever anyways 3-4 years is a long time to waste on someone. if I'm going to be with someone 3-4 years I will have a couple other guys on the side because I'm not about to waste years on one guy. not worth it
also dgfgbrgts I'm not about to make a guy propose or give him hints. if he's not ready I'm on to the next
I get what you are saying. But I think most people who wait longer then that have no question they want to get married but things get in the way. Maybe they're in school or not where they want to be in their career's yet. Or whatever it is. I'd say at 2 years you should have a good idea of what your future will look like together and whether or not you are going to marry each other but sometimes that might mean you're not engaged.
Are you serious? Two years would be the very earliest I would consider proposing. A lot of couple stay in their honeymoon faze for two years. You need to get past any infatuation and see if you truly love each other.
People getting married after one year and such is one of the big causes of such a high divorce rate. They find out they don't match after all way too late.
thats what I mean. anything after 2 years I'm OK but I'm not going longer than 3 years. marriage isn't an issue but if I find a guy who I really am in love with and he's not ready you better believe I will have other guys on the sideline. regardless if I'm 2 up and 8 down I don't care lol.. my life and I will live it the way I want. this is why I agree with seeing with multiple men. I have friends who waste 4-5 years and nothing. ill waste 5 years with 5 different men!
I'd be floored and flattered not to mention speechless at the same time. But it would depend on whether or not I felt the same way, or at least, was ready to take such a step. If I was, yeah, I'd marry her. If not, then not at that time.
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i personally wouldn't propose.. I might hint..but I like the whole knee with the ring thing..and what's a girl gonna do.. buy her own ring and propose to him with it?
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I did propose. =) It wasn't very romantic and it was during a passing period at school, but hey, we're engaged now and when he's 18 we're tying the knot. So it obviously worked out fine.
Interesting. I hope it lasts.
You pulled a Topanga. XD awesome. haha
Ahmygawb Topanga! I loved her! Lol my man can be my Cory any day.
If you're Topanga and your man is Cory... then who is your guys' Mr. Feeney. :)
My Mr. Feeny would definitely be my 10th grade English teacher lol
LOL @ marriage as the least sexual form of relationship!
I know right? that one got to me too. Although its one thing I fear. I would hate for the sex to stop after the knot is tied, that would just really suck.
heh, yea, but it was totally put into sexuality! I guess the mods moved it to relationships. Good ole mods. Also, I'm sure its very sexual at first, but I think for must people that stops after a couple of years. Oh well. Cest la vie.
Lmao at your comment, "marriage is the least sexual form of relationships."
But I would probably not like getting proposed to. Somehow, the thought kinda ruins it. Ehh... crazy and stupid, I know, but I'd hate it.
Hey but she would have to buy you a big rock. Wouldn't that be cool?
Don't men just get gold rings? Besides, I'd feel stupid with a diamond ring, lol.
I'd consider proposing, but I don't think I'd actually act on it. I want to be suprized by the guy and while some gender roles are outdated, I think it's still the guy's job to propose.
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No, I wouldn't because of this:
https://www.YouTube.com/watch?v=FwHta9DedGU@ 0:44
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I would never propose! I think that if a guy feels like you're the one he wants, he should have the balls to say it. A proposal is the guys only time to give a glimpse of how much he loves his girl, and to what extent he can go to make her his.
so why doesn't it work the other way around? if you feel like he is the one you want you should have the woman balls to say it too.
no it doesn't sound very attractive to me.. I'm pretty traditional when it comes to that kinda stuff so I'd want my man to propose.. I'd never ha ha even tho I'd love him.. I'm just more of a traditionalist and want him to do that.
I'd be about as pleased as you'd be if your fiance told you the good news that he'd bought your wedding dress.
lol...this made me laugh!
Very nice comparison, LIKE :o)
I would be afraid to get my feelings hurt if he said No. I couldn't do it. Plus I really would like to be the one receiving the engagement ring. My man should handle his Biz like a man. I'll be is buttress.
I could see myself pretty much blatantly suggesting/asking/telling a guy I'd be down with marrying him but not doing the formal proposal aspect...
No I would not propose. It's about that fight for me thing! Unless of course I refused him the first time he asked, but then realized I had made a terrible mistake.
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i have to add another comment. I think its funny how men want women to be upfront and assertive and make moves yet they don't want us to be forward and propose? isn't that making a move? pick a side guys pick a side
nope id never propose. unless id said no at first then changed my mind
hey why the 2 down votes? I just like the old fashioned way of the guy proposing that's all...
men are told to beg for women's love and attention way too much in our "enlightened" society. all it results in is men getting screwed over by frivolous women. f*** that, getting on a knee and proposing is the ultimate bitch move
Although I would like to say in that situation I would propose, but I wouldn't. Maybe just end up encouraging/talking about it if I felt in a grey area about it in the relationship :)
nope would never propose. I figure after 2 years of being together and no proposal its time for me to find another guy
that's sad..
no its not sad. after 2 years I feel that if you don't know me well enough and vice versa then its not going to happen. I'm not going to waste my life on a guy who doesn't feel like I'm worth it. 2 years is long enough imo
atleast give it 3-4 years. Not everyone really knows the person after 2 years.
Just propose yourself! jesus!
kain6th I'm suprosed you commented because you blocked me lol.. whatever anyways 3-4 years is a long time to waste on someone. if I'm going to be with someone 3-4 years I will have a couple other guys on the side because I'm not about to waste years on one guy. not worth it
also dgfgbrgts I'm not about to make a guy propose or give him hints. if he's not ready I'm on to the next
at first I disagreed, but the I sorrrt of see your opinion, and it's not that bad
I get what you are saying. But I think most people who wait longer then that have no question they want to get married but things get in the way. Maybe they're in school or not where they want to be in their career's yet. Or whatever it is. I'd say at 2 years you should have a good idea of what your future will look like together and whether or not you are going to marry each other but sometimes that might mean you're not engaged.
Are you serious? Two years would be the very earliest I would consider proposing. A lot of couple stay in their honeymoon faze for two years. You need to get past any infatuation and see if you truly love each other.
People getting married after one year and such is one of the big causes of such a high divorce rate. They find out they don't match after all way too late.
thats what I mean. anything after 2 years I'm OK but I'm not going longer than 3 years. marriage isn't an issue but if I find a guy who I really am in love with and he's not ready you better believe I will have other guys on the sideline. regardless if I'm 2 up and 8 down I don't care lol.. my life and I will live it the way I want. this is why I agree with seeing with multiple men. I have friends who waste 4-5 years and nothing. ill waste 5 years with 5 different men!
I would totally ask, but I love the traditional way of life with relationships and romance, but I would ask if I loved the guy enough!
I'd be floored and flattered not to mention speechless at the same time. But it would depend on whether or not I felt the same way, or at least, was ready to take such a step. If I was, yeah, I'd marry her. If not, then not at that time.
i personally wouldn't propose.. I might hint..but I like the whole knee with the ring thing..and what's a girl gonna do.. buy her own ring and propose to him with it?
I wouldn't. This is one area where I think the guy should still make the first move.
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