I would love to know honest thoughts about this - without the pressures of political correctness and feminism restricting the truth on what guys really think.
If you are looking to have kids, would you prefer a women who wasn't too career focused? Do you think (in general) they make better wives and mothers? (In the case scenario; you had enough money that you didn't need two full time incomes)
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Basically in my opinion there are 3 major priorities possible, and everyone will choose only one as the reason of their life, the same time not focusing(too much or at all) on the other two.
Those options are:
Family - wife & kids, spending their time, resources and effort for them, total commitment
Career - climbing up the ladder, educating themselves for a lifetime, seeking prestige
Free sex - no strings attached, living in the club, hooking up all the time, forever single
It's all about the personality. Everyone must ask themselves: "What are really your priorities?"
As I mentioned, there's only one and choosing the wrong for you(note that "wrong" for some might be "correct" for someone else) means having a life at waste.
So when the man wants family, he must marry a woman who also wants family, because otherwise neither of them will be happy.
Why a girl who's living for the 3rd option would be bad mother is obvious, but if you're too much career-focused first your children will be neglected, also you may have very little to no free time which may alienate you from your spouse. So it's better for such people not to be together in the first place.
That's my input about this.