I'm 23 and my husband is 29. We only dated for 8 months and then we found out that I was pregnant. I made it very clear that I didn't want to get married because I was pregnant. He said he understood and that he completely agreed. Well he asked me a few months later if I would marry him and he told me it wasn't because I was pregnant... We just got married 3 weeks ago and I'm not going to lie...I have my doubts that I made the right decision. I only had one boyfriend before him and that was when I was 16! I left home when I was 18 and lived alone for the past 5 years. It has been the hardest thing living with a man and dealing with all the emotions that come with pregnancy. I am terrified of becoming a mom and a wife...I just don’t know if these feelings are normal. I feel so depressed and all I want to do is sleep. He works nights and I work days…so I never really see him.
I do love him like crazy and he is the best man a girl could ask for...I just feel like I’m going crazy all the time! Is this normal?
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You say you love him like crazy and he's the best man you could ask for.
You are having a child together.
So you know what? I don't see evidence that you've made a mistake.
You're pregnant, suddenly married and living together, work different shifts - uh these are massive, massive adjustments. When the baby comes its going to be even more of a shock. This is just reality!
I'd really suggest you two maybe get some marriage counselling - not because you're a mess, but just because its a great idea for new couples to start things off as well as possible. You took driving lessons before you got your driver's license, it might be a good idea to take at least as many 'marriage lessons', no?19