One of my good friends met this guy at a new years eve party and obviously they liked each other. A week after they first met, they started going out, now a month a later--- THEY'RE ENGAGED! After the announcement of their engagement, they said their wedding is going to be May 26th, now its the 24th of March! This is insane! I'm happy for my friend but she barely knows this guy, is this normal?
Has anyone had a similar experience as this? I'm kinda freaking out Because I feel that I'm losing my friend and she always been really cautious when seeing someone new Because she's had a bad history when it came to choosing stupid rude dumb guys for boyfriends who were verbally, physically and emotionally abusive towards her and now when she meets a guy who seems sweet and nice, she thinks he's the one?!?! I'm scared she's going to get hurt really bad and and this obviously won't be like a break up a person can get over. HELP!
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I wouldn't say he's just wanting sex. What I WILL say though, is that what they're doing is pretty stupid.
First of all, if they already had sex, and he STILL wants to marry her, then you can be assured 100% that he doesn't just want sex. Because if all he wanted was sex, he wouldn't bother with the whole marriage thing. It's not something guys do.
What could be happening here though is that, because they just met, they're having that "crazy passion" that most of us have when we meet someone. The thing is, this sort of thing ALWAYS FADES after a while. And it's only when it fades, that we are able to truly decide if we really want to spend the rest of our lives with that person.
In other words, they don't know each other properly yet. Not even a year is enough to REALLY know what someone is like, unless you live with each other (which I doubt is the case with your friend).2