It used to be tradition. Now it just seems like a stigma. For some reason, guys think that if you don't sleep with them, you don't love them enough. So, they just leave for someone more "willing." I've seen it happen to almost every woman in my family...Does it have to happen to me too? I wonder why these guys (and I'm not saying all guys) feel that their feelings are more valid and, if anyone's compromising, why it has to be the woman.
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There are a few things that must be right for any marriage to work. They are:
Personality compatibility: this include trust and agreement on financial and personal life.
Sex life: Let face it, guys are genetically program have sex as much as possible because it is important to him passing on genetic code. God made us this way, and the theory of evolutionary science said so as well.
You can't have a lasting relationship if either are not functioning. It is easy to find out personality incompatibility because when it happens, you guys argue.
Sex is a whole another story. I won't buy a house without looking at it first. I won't buy a car without test driving it. I am not saying that women are object, I am saying that marriage is a big investment. Way bigger than a car and a house and I want to make sure that I like it before committing my life to it.
Marriage are happening later and later in today's society. A lot of people marry well after they are 30, so 20 years is a long time to stay horn and 35 years is a long time to stay a virgin.
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