What kind of tone does "insisting on marriage" give off? Why the need to insist?
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I think when a girl is insisting on marriage, it's probably because she feels it's time to take the relationship in that direction.
If you are not engaged, maybe she feels it's time to get engaged. She feels you two have been dating long enough and wants to marry you. I would personally be flattered, because that is something that should be seen as a positive, if she wants to marry you, chances are pretty good she loves you. Whether you actually want to get married or not is a different issue. But it should be discussed if she is insisting.
Depending on her age, it's probably time in her head to get married. It's a combination of her social circle and her own feelings and life timeline. Maybe all of her friends are moving in that direction and she wants to do that too. Or maybe she is ready because she has a good job, is settled and now wants kids, or maybe to just get married and settle down more.
If you are engaged, she probably feels as though it is time to take that next step and actually get married.
There is no set timeline. Every couple is different, and regardless what your case is you should probably talk to your girlfriend, or if this is a friend, he should talk to his girlfriend about this. They both need to be open and have a discussion about what their ideas are for the relationship.