My friends who are married say it will always be a leap of faith but when you are ready you just...know instinctually that you are ready to make that commitment.
They also say that the right person will never be exactly the type you imagined yourself with but you"just know"it is the right one. Unless you are one of those people who jumped in and probably shouldn't have.
What do you think?
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i think if you are young, you idealism can collide with another persons and result in such a marriage... but once you get older, I feel like reality sets in and you don't marry because you got swept away but because it's a strategic choice... aka this person can give me what I want ...
i'm 24 and I can't imagine being swept up in idealistic fancy. if I get married, it will be to an emotionally stable intelligent girl with good family history, healthy genetics & a body that'll age well... on top of having the value set where she will make a good mother / wife.0