your girlfriend or wife wanted to be a house wife? My girlfriend soon to be fiancé has said that when we're married she wants to have two little ones, and that she wants to stay home to raise them. I don't have a big problem with her staying home, but I don't want her to lose who she is as an individual, meaning losing all of her independence and not doing her own thing. So my second question is will her staying at home change the fun, self fulfilling, and exciting person I've grown to love into plain Jane?
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Becoming a house wife won't change who she is. Her personality, intelligence, sense of humor, etc. won't just suddenly disappear. However, it's a big lifestyle change and it could certainly impact how she feels and how the two of you interact.2