I am European and he is Asian , he was studying in Europe so we met, I love him and we want marry .
We would have to live in his country because he has good job there now ( earns a lot) .
We have different religions, in his country are completely different traditions, we have kinda different values - but we accept it and want be together.
Is only one things which worries me, tell me what do you think about it:
In his country if people divorce kids would stay with father , and also they would have only father's citizenship.
I think of course that we won't divorce never, we are really very very happy .., but I can't predict future, after divorce I would lose kids .
What do you think about it? is this something to worry ?, I want marry him but this worries me a little
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I can only talk for myself of course, I would have no issues with marrying someone from a different country an if he got a good job there I'd gladly move to Europe, Canada, Latin America, Africa, Australia and New Zealand with him. However there are some countries in which I would not want live or at least only temporary. I don't really want to live in China or Japan but I guess it wouldn't be so bad for a couple of years.
However I would never ever move to a middle eastern country (with maybe the exeption of Turkey and Israel if that's considered middle eastern), India or Pakistan. It has nothing to do with sterotypes but a lot those countries have laws and tradtions that I do not want to live with.
I'm not sure what country you are talking about and I don't know much about the divorce laws of other countries but if the father always gets the kids in absolutley every senario and also can decide where his kids can or can not stay in every case, I'd be worried
Also about citizenship, are you sure they can't have double citizenship? That's something I'd insist on too.2