I can understand why girls want to get married, like security, and some girls like the fairy tale happy ending. But I always hear guys complaining about marriage so what is the motivation for you to get married. If your married what drove you to this is it just love? Or is it something else about the person? You also see guys that date a girl for like 3 years live together then break up, but then the next relationship lasts a year and they get married right away. Do you feel pressure from your family more than us girls to get married?
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We like security too...we like being with and living with someone who cares, someone to share a house with rather than a gloomy, lonely old house with belongings that sit in dead, still piles for weeks at a time, someone to share the work and house chores with, a financial partner...someone to start building a nest egg with, someone to socialize and recreate with, someone to hold onto in the iron dark..no matter how good or bad the day was...and oh yeah...got a partner to have sex with..instead of wondering whether you can pick someone up at the bar or get together with a friend...and she knows what I like and never says "ewww"...if the characteristics & properties align then not much reason not to go ahead and we only dated 4 or 5 months...when she is 34 & I am 38...why wait? ...(:(:(:3