We've been together for a year and lived together for 4 months. I'm on great terms with his family. I hadn't really wanted to think about getting married before, but I joked about it once. When I did, he got really excited and started saying 'Are you saying you want to get married? you want to get married don't you!' at that point I didn't so I just cut the conversation short.
He's been talking about running away together and being with each other forever He's including me in his long term plans. I'm starting to think maybe he and I need to have a talk. How do I bring it up?
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There are lots of other things to talk about before getting married as well. How many children, how are you going to handle bills. Where do you want to live, how are you going to handle careers. Maybe you've discussed these things in passing, but sitting down and really working out the details, can easily lead to discussion about marriage. Remember, these are just HIS long term plans but yours as well.
I once heard it said to me.
You can't define love, you can't see it, and it's something that only you and the person your in love with can feel. Getting married is a way to have something tangible that says.. "here is my love".