Lately I realize my husband and I really don't communicate to resolve things we sit and debate more than anything.
Do you find yourself in the same position with your significant other?
Do you find yourself trying to prove yourself right the majority of the conversation?
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hi I get what is going on with you and your husband .i have been there myself and now I'm just 4 months seperated after 16 years.and its awfull. instead of debating have you both considered some marriage councelling? its a great idea to learn how to talk better .unfortunatly if you don't stop debating .it turns into fighting and then so on.yah know?do what ever you can possible to stop this before its too late.take it from me .i tried so hard but he still walked out and sadly I truley hope you can talk to some good friends and family and your husband at night time and say enough we need to talk it out.marriage is not a debate hun.its comprimise and getting along and talking about everything .your husband is your best friend so why debate over stuff.in the end its not worth it.I lost it .but I hope only the best for you both and have an everlasting marriage .I hope I helped you and please take care.wish you all the best.0