I have been with my fiance for over 5 years now. We set a wedding date in late August, but some things are really weighing on my mind. When my fiance and I first got together we were friends with a married couple, Wes & Sheri. We had a lot of fun together. The problem was that Wes repeatedly cheated on Sheri with MY best friend as well as with other girls. I acted like I was cool with it and tried to mind my own business, but deep down it really bothered me. Also, I baby sat for this couple and Wes came home for lunch and tried to get me to mess around with him. I never told my boyfriend until about 1 1/2 years ago. When I finally did, my boyfriend never confronted his "best friend" about it as far as I know and is not bothered by his friend cheating on his wife. To this day my boyfriend is still best friends with Wes and I have grown to HATE Wes to the point of not wanting to see or speak with him. I get really angry just thinking about my boyfriend & Wes hanging out. My boyfriend knows I hate him and am uncomfortable around him, but never really cares. I think part of my anger is at my bf, feeling like he chose Wes over me and I wonder how my boyfriend can hand around with someone with little morals as Wes. Is this crazy??? What should I do?
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For guys, a buddy, a best friend is more important that for girls. If his friend is cheating, he will not stop hanging out with him or stop talking to him. Yeah, it would be nice if he gave a few advice why he shouldn't but you don't know if he does that or not. Even if he doesn't, that's not something to blame him. As I said, friends are important.
However, you said Wes guy was hitting on you and trying to make out with you etc..If he believes you for sure and he doesn't care that his best friend is fooling around with his future wife. That's not a good sign. If his buddy didn't hit on you I would be on your boyfriends side, but since you are one of his friends' targets, that's not cool at all. No matter how close they are. 5 years is a long time to be with someone. I'm sure you already know him pretty well, and you are still with him so that means he is actually a nice guy. My only guess, are you sure he believes you that wes guy did try to flirt with you? My guess is no. But if you are sure he does believe you. Then something major is wrong with you future husband. Beware!1